Certified SYMBIS Facilitator & Gottman-Informed

I don't give advice.
I give you architecture.

A proven assessment. Expert facilitation. The structure to actually deliver what you both said you wanted — whether you're building toward marriage or maintaining the one you already have.

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Structured Coaching Programs

Where would you like to begin?

Whether you're stepping into marriage or rebuilding within one, there's a program built specifically for where you are. Sessions are conducted via Zoom — available to couples worldwide.

For Pre-Engaged Couples

Architecture Before the Ring

The marriage you're about to build deserves a blueprint. Over 8 weeks, we run the SYMBIS+ assessment, build a shared vocabulary, map your families of origin, and stress-test the frame you're proposing together. You leave with a Decision Architecture Report — a written proceed, pause, or no recommendation grounded in evidence, not feelings. This is the work that happens before the ring.

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For Married Couples

Marriage Renewal Essentials

The marriage you built deserves maintenance. Over 5 weeks, we run a focused tune-up: SYMBIS+ debrief, a Repair Inventory of what's wearing thin, language and pattern work, family map, and stress points. You leave with a written Maintenance Rhythm — the joints and check-ins that keep a working marriage working. Tune-up, not triage. Not therapy, not crisis intervention.

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Digital Tools

Digital Tools You Can Use Today

Not ready for a full program? These standalone tools give you proven frameworks you can use today — at home, on your own schedule, at your own pace.

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The Conflict Reset

A structured digital tool that turns a fight into a co-signed agreement — every time. Both partners log in separately, work through a guided 5-part resolution flow, and end with clarity instead of resentment.

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Connection Card Deck

150+ conversation prompts across six relationship categories — Love Maps, Communication, Conflict, Intimacy, Shared Meaning, and Fun. Because great marriages are built in the everyday moments, not just the big ones.

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The Approach

Why It Works

I don't give advice. I give you architecture. Every program I run is built on the two most research-backed frameworks in relationship science — and I bring 38 years of my own marriage and 500+ couples to the table alongside them.

SYMBIS+ Assessment

You'll complete the most comprehensive relationship assessment available — revealing your personalities, communication styles, and potential friction points with a level of clarity most couples never get. It becomes the foundation for every conversation we have.

Gottman Method

You'll learn and practice the specific behaviors that the world's leading relationship research says actually make couples thrive — not feel-good theory, but actionable skills you can apply that same week. I don't just teach these. I coach you through them.

Expert Facilitation

I've officiated over 500 weddings and spent 38 years inside my own marriage. I'm a Certified SYMBIS Facilitator and Gottman-informed coach — and I bring all of it into every session. I'm not reading from a textbook. I've walked this ground myself.

What Couples Say

From the people who've done the work

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Andy is passionate about not just marrying couples who are in love, but getting them off to a great start with pre-marital counseling and a special, love story-centered ceremony. If you're looking for a coach and officiant who does far more than just sign the paper, you definitely need to contact Andy.

— Emily C.

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Andy was a phenomenal coach and officiant. He got to know me and my now husband over a series of months through the SYMBIS sessions and then officiated our wedding. He was everything you could want...

— Tia B.

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Andreas did our premarital counseling with the SYMBIS. My Fiancé and I thoroughly enjoyed the conversations we shared and learned a lot about ourselves in this process. Andreas was also a great mediator in giving us suggestions on how we can work together to appreciate our differences. He was very easy to talk with and made us feel comfortable. I highly recommend reaching out to Andreas for your premarital counseling sessions.

— Rebeca I.

Your Facilitator

A word from Andy

I've officiated over 500 weddings in Savannah — and spent the better part of three decades watching what comes after the ceremony. That vantage point, combined with 38 years inside my own marriage, has taught me something most coaches can't offer: I've walked the ground I'm asking you to walk.

As a Certified SYMBIS Facilitator and Gottman-informed relationship coach, I bring clinical rigor and personal depth in equal measure. I don't do generic advice. I do your marriage.

38 Years Married

500+ Couples Served

20+ Years Toastmasters

Meet Andy

I don't give advice.I give you architecture.