A structured digital tool that turns a fight into an agreement — every time.
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Most couples have a template for conflict: escalation, partial resolution, lingering resentment, repeat. It's not that they don't care. It's that they've never had a structured process to move through — so every fight improvises its way through the same ineffective patterns.
The Conflict Reset is a web-based tool that both partners access separately. Rather than hash things out in the heat of the moment, each partner logs in independently, works through a guided 5-part flow at their own pace, and then the system brings your responses together — surfacing common ground, highlighting differences, and generating a shared agreement you both sign.
The result isn't just resolution. It's a documented agreement — stored in your account, printable, and revisable. Over time, you build a history of how you've resolved things and what you've committed to. The tool learns your patterns. You stop repeating your worst ones.
It won't replace couples coaching. But it will give you a structure for the day-to-day conflicts that would otherwise eat hours and leave you both frustrated — and it's built on the same conflict resolution principles that Andy uses in his coaching programs.
Each partner completes the flow independently. No arguing in real time. Just your honest perspective — and then a process that builds toward agreement.
Both of you access the tool separately, on your own device, in your own time. No pressure to have the conversation before you're ready.
Work through four guided prompts: what happened (your view), how it affected you, what you need, and what you're willing to offer.
The system surfaces where you agree, where you differ, and which differences are values-based versus preference-based — before you talk.
Draft a specific, concrete agreement: what each person commits to going forward, with clear language you both contributed to writing.
Both partners digitally sign the agreement. It's stored in your shared history, printable, and becomes part of a growing record of commitments you've kept.
Each partner has their own secure login. Responses are private until you're both ready to review.
Each prompt is designed and sequenced based on proven conflict resolution principles — not generic prompts.
Generates a formatted, specific agreement document that both partners sign digitally — no vague outcomes.
All resolved conflicts and their agreements are stored chronologically — giving you a real record of your commitments.
Export any agreement as a clean, formatted PDF for reference, couples coaching sessions, or your Marriage Blueprint.
Over time, see which topics come up most and how your resolution speed and quality are changing — actual data on your relationship patterns.
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